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Man in the Mirror

SONY DSCWho’s In the Mirror?

Have you ever noticed how much sinners look like the man in the mirror? I’ve been struck by the similarities of sinners to Christians. I shouldn’t be. Christians are sinners too. The difference lies in the “no condemnation” statement of Romans 8:1, 2:

“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death.”

Note that the freedom from condemnation comes only for those “in Christ Jesus.” Those outside of Christ have no such promise. There is also the very important contrast of those set free by the law of the Spirit of life against those judged by the law of sin and death. That verse is what makes the man in the mirror different from a sinner not in Christ.

That does not mean there are not important similarities. The differences fade quickly when we think of where we were before Jesus came into our lives.

Many who read here grew up with loving, godly parents who ensured they were raised “in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4, KJV). We were taught the Bible stories and were thrilled when Daniel walked out of the lion’s den or when Jonah was swallowed by a whale. We had our little white Bible and knew all of the Sunday School songs by heart.

But what if we didn’t? What if we did not have godly parents? What if we never attended worship or Bible study as a child? Where would we be?

That is where we find the world today. Many do not have the background we enjoyed and so their lives descended further and further into worldliness and chaos. Without an anchor they drifted from one seemingly satisfying moment to the next. They were never taught.

I might be wise to remember that when you next look into the mirror. The saved face staring back at you might not have been so clean were it not for your blessed past. Where would you be?

My point is that we can see people who are lost but we cannot see why they are lost. Our approach to them must be that of a kindly, patient teacher. Remember the old saw, “There, but for the grace of God, go I.” We’ll reach more with understanding. Teaching truth, never compromising, but understanding the path that brought them to us.

 

Bryant Evans may be reached at bryant at bryantevans.com. You can follow Bryant on Twitter @jbevans.

All About Me, Myself and I

I’d like to offer two links today for your consideration. Both deal with a self-centered approach to life. The first is from Jeff Jenkins who writes Thoughts from the Mound. He speaks of thinking only of yourself and taking a self-centered view of the world. I think you will be well served by the article as I know I was.

The second is from young lady who is making her way in the blogging world. Melissa McCown Harrell. She writes Walking with God in High Heels. Her post may prove a touch controversial to some. But she suggests that some of what we call “depression” is really about chronic selfishness. Now before you jump to conclusions be sure and read the comments. I think Melissa is talk about what I call a “pity party.” Regardless, it helps to remind us that others should come first.

Focus on Somebody Besides Yourself

I know that football season is just days away. So with the kickoff in mind I thought I’d share this story from John Maxwell’s “25 Ways to Win With People.”

Maxwell tells about former University of Colorado coach Bill McCartney. Colorado was set to play rival Nebraska on the Cornhusker’s home turf. Colorado had not won a game from Nebraska in 23 years! Coach Mac knew that it would be easy to assume the worst and go down in defeat one more time. But the coach believed in his team and only wanted them to believe in themselves.

The coach asked his players to call someone they loved and tell them that they were dedicating the game to them. They asked that person to watch every play knowing that they were giving it their all for that one person. Coach Mac went so far as arrange to have team balls, with the final score on them, sent to every person his players called. He believed in his players and knew that if they focused on someone else they would find renewed strength and energy.

The Colorado Buffaloes beat powerhouse Nebraska 27 to 12.

Try taking your eyes off of yourself and focusing on those around you. You may be suprised how much energy you discover.